Calm, verified messaging
Messages that both parents can see, with read receipts and a record of what was said and when. Built to lower the temperature, not raise it.
One schedule both homes see
A shared custody calendar with recurring events, so a handoff is never a question of whose version is right.
Expenses and records in the open
Request and pay shared expenses through Stripe, and keep certified exports of the messages and entries you choose.
A clear, durable record
Messages, calendar entries, calls and payments live in one place, with exports you can keep. Copare helps you show what happened without arguing about it, and it never claims more than that: it is a record, not legal advice, and it does not promise that any court will accept it.
What an export covers
Certified PDF exports of the records you choose.
What is in your account
Every plan starts with messaging, the calendar, matching with your co-parent, LockBox and Copare Pay. Higher plans add calling, more storage and more exports.
Verified messaging
Messages both parents can see, with read receipts and a record of what was said and when.
ScheduleHub
A shared custody and events calendar, with recurring schedules both households see.
Copare Talk
Voice and video calls between matched co-parents, with included minutes on Plus and Signature.
Copare Pay
Request and send shared-expense payments, processed by Stripe.
LockBox
A secure vault for documents and records, encrypted before storage.
Care Library
Shared documents and information about your child, in one place.
Your Journal
A private space for your own notes, separate from the shared record.
Export Center
Certified PDF exports of messages and calendar entries you choose to keep.
Care Team
Invite an attorney, mediator or therapist to see only what you choose to share.
Plans and pricing
Choose monthly or yearly billing. Prices are in US dollars. Plans renew automatically until you cancel, and you can cancel any time.
Core
Get organized
or $59.88 billed yearly
- Unlimited secure messaging with read receipts, retraction and attachments
- Shared co-parenting calendar with recurring events
- Co-parent account matching and linking
- LockBox secure vault, 500 MB
- Copare Pay expense requests, standard processing fee
- 1 certified PDF export per month (messages and calendar)
- Email support
Plus
Talk it through
or $99.00 billed yearly
- Everything in Core
- Voice and video calling, 60 minutes per month included
- LockBox storage increased to 3 GB
- 40 certified PDF exports per month, full Export Center
- Copare Pay at a reduced processing fee
- On-demand tone check for Verified Messaging
- Priority email support
Signature
Build the record
or $179.88 billed yearly
- Everything in Plus
- Voice and video calling, 150 minutes per month included
- Call recording and transcription on every call
- LockBox storage increased to 10 GB
- Copare Pay at the lowest processing fee
- A free linked Core account for your matched co-parent
- Real-time moderation for Verified Messaging, and a private writing coach only you can see
- Priority phone and chat support
Payments are processed by Stripe. Taxes may apply. See the Refund and Cancellation Policy and the Terms of Service.
Questions
What is Copare?
Copare is a shared workspace for separated or divorced co-parents. It brings messaging, a custody calendar, document storage, shared-expense payments and calls into one account, so you are not piecing together texts, email, spreadsheets and separate payment apps.
Is Copare legal advice, and will a court accept my records?
No. Copare is not a law firm, court, mediator or therapist. Its exports are a clear record of what was said, scheduled and paid, but we do not promise that any court or agency will accept or give weight to a record. Talk to a qualified professional about your situation.
Do both parents need an account?
Copare works between two co-parents who are matched to each other with a Match ID. On the Signature plan, your matched co-parent also gets a free linked Core account.
How do I cancel?
Cancel any time in your account settings, or through the billing portal linked there. Cancellation takes effect at the end of the current billing period and you keep access until then. See the Refund and Cancellation Policy for details.
Can I get a refund?
Fees are non-refundable and we do not refund partial periods, except where the law requires. If you believe you were charged in error, email us and we will review it. The full policy is on the Refund and Cancellation page.
How are payments handled?
Subscription payments and Copare Pay payments between co-parents are processed by Stripe. Copare does not store your card or bank details, and does not hold your money.
Talk to us
Questions about Copare, your account, a charge or a refund? Email our support team and a person will reply.
Copare is operated by CoPare LLC.